Marriage is Walking in Agreement
“Can two walk together, except they be agreed” (Amos 3:3 KJV). Male and female are attracted to one another because their Creator made it so, for the Divine Purpose is to produce a “godly seed” (Malachi 2:15). Marriage is a joint sharing or agreement, it represents the understanding that the “husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and He is the saviour of the body” (Ephesians 5:23). Marriage is God’s arrangement of opportunity and responsibility. Adam had the intelligence to name all the animals (Genesis 2:19), yet he is remembered for humanity’s first sin (Romans 5:14). Not because he ate the forbidden fruit first, but because he was responsible for Eve, when she was deceived (1Timothy 2:14). God named Adam. Adam named Eve (Genesis 3:20). Parents name their children. “Children, obey your parents in the Lord: for this is right” (Ephesians 6:1). Parents are accountable to God for they determine the destiny of their children. “Train up a child in the way he should go: and when he is old, he will not depart from it” (Proverbs 22:6). Children are inescapably a reflection or response to their parents, for the parents are the caregivers, whose conduct molds their children’s impressionable minds. “And, ye fathers, provoke not your children to wrath: but bring them up in the nurture and admonition of the Lord” (Ephesians 6:4).
Marriage and Family: Ordained to Promote Obedience to God
Marriage is the means God gave humanity to fulfill the commission, “Be fruitful, and multiply, and replenish the earth, and subdue it: and have dominion” (Genesis 1:28). The necessity of marriage as opposed to simple cohabitation is based upon the commitment of a man and a woman becoming “one flesh” (Genesis 2:24; Matthew 19:5). If marriage was not an institution of God, fornication (premarital sex) and adultery (sexual intercourse with someone other than your spouse) would hold no meaning. “Thou shalt not commit adultery” (Exodus 20:14). Discussion of differences between the sexes recognize the female capacity of bearing the child and the male role of giving the seed; but, God instructs “husbands, [to] dwell with them [wives] according to knowledge, giving honour unto the wife, as unto the weaker vessel, and as being heirs together of the grace of life; that your prayers be not hindered” (1Peter 3:7).
Life’s Purpose: Glorify God
The discussion of marriage and family becomes lost in the struggle of life until life’s purpose is understood beyond merely existing. “Whether therefore ye eat, or drink, or whatsoever ye do, do all to the glory of God” (1Corinthians 10:31). Moses declared, “Thou shalt love the LORD thy God with all thine heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy might” (Deuteronomy 6:5). The Preacher concluded, “Fear God, and keep His commandments: for this is the whole duty of man” (Ecclesiastes 12:13). The Twenty Four Elders worship God, “Thou art worthy, O Lord, to receive glory and honour and power: for Thou hast created all things, and for Thy pleasure they are and were created” (Revelation 4:11). All of this unites in the centrality of the worship of Jesus throughout all the ages to come. “That at the name of Jesus every knee should bow, of things in heaven, and things in earth, and things under the earth; And that every tongue should confess that Jesus Christ is Lord, to the glory of God the Father” (Philippians 2:10-11).
Whatever Adam and Eve were purposed to do in the Beginning (walk with Yahweh), whatever Messiah Jesus accomplished in His Atonement upon the Cross (reconciled us to God), and whatever the NT Church is supposed to be accomplishing until Jesus raptures His Church (teach people to obey Christ), we are to accomplish within the framework of Christian marriage. “30 For we are members of His body, of His flesh, and of His bones. 31 For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and shall be joined unto his wife, and they two shall be one flesh. 32 This is a great mystery: but I speak concerning Christ and the church” (Ephesians 5:30-32).
Success in all areas of marriage and the family require
A Basic Understanding of How God Accomplishes Obedience in Our Lives.
First, we have been commanded to teach others to obey Christ. “Teaching them to observe all things whatsoever I have commanded you: and, lo, I am with you alway, even unto the end of the world. Amen” (Matthew 28:20).
Second, if we simply assume, we will obey because we choose to obey, then we are likely to assume our obedience is due to our good intentions resulting in our obedience. Yet, we have been plainly made aware, our obedience is due to God inspiring us to obey, i.e., “For it is God which worketh in you both to will and to do of His good pleasure” (Philippians 2:13).
Third, the whole purpose of the New Covenant was to give us God’s Spirit to indwell us to inspire us to obey Him. “And I will put My Spirit within you, and cause you to walk in My statutes, and ye shall keep My judgments, and do them” (Ezekiel 36:27).
Fourth, the first sermon of the New Covenant was Peter explaining what we must do to receive God’s Spirit. “Repent, and be baptized every one of you in the name of Jesus Christ for the remission of sins, and ye shall receive the gift of the Holy Ghost” (Acts 2:38).
Fifth, we were then reminded, The Holy Spirit is given to them that obey Him, i.e., obedience to the command to repent and be baptized (2:38). “And we are his witnesses of these things; and so is also the Holy Ghost, whom God hath given to them that obey Him” (Acts 5:32).
Sixth, Spirit directed walking is the obedience that overcomes the flesh. “This I say then, Walk in the Spirit, and ye shall not fulfil the lust of the flesh” (Galatians 5:16).
Seventh, this cycle of obedience continues for a lifetime until we are translated into eternity, where it is confirmed forevermore. “But we all, with open face beholding as in a glass the glory of the Lord, are changed into the same image from glory to glory, even as by the Spirit of the Lord” (2Corinthians 3:18).
Father, cause us to see Marriage and Family as a powerful tool to accomplish Your purposes in the Earth. Overcome all of the enemies’ attempts to make Marriage and Family as only accidental or incidental to the human experience. Bless all those who embrace Your ways in this life. Grant them understanding and happiness as they overcome all the inevitable troubles of life, until we are translated into Your presence. Lord Jesus, return quickly. In Your name, we pray. Amen and amen.
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